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The perfect romantic gemstone for Valentine’s Day


When the shops fill up with pink, red and purple, you know that Valentine’s Day is nearly upon us. Instead of chocolates or flowers, why not pick a romantic gemstone as a Valentine’s Day gift?  Here are Gemstone Detective’s top five:

Ruby gemstone |


It may be named ‘King of Gemstones’ in India, but according to the Christian Old Testament, the value of a rubies is far outweighed by that of a good wife!  

This precious gemstone is the red variety of a mineral called corundum, which at 9 on the Mohs scale is second only to diamond in durability.  Burmese rubies – also known as pigeon blood rubies – are the most prized thanks to their deep, blueish-red hue.  In fact, the blood-red colour of ruby is possibly the reason it has come to be associated with the heat of intense love.  It’s said to ignite feelings of love and passion in the wearer, which makes ruby jewellery an ideal romantic gemstone gift for Valentine’s day.

Rose Quartz Gemstone |

Rose Quartz

If a bunch of real roses doesn’t quite hit the mark, how about a piece of rose quartz jewellery to express how much you love that special someone?  Rose quartz is the stone of relationships and is said to strengthen the bond between lovers. 

And if you’ve been feeling the lack of love in the run up to Valentine’s day, it’s said that rose quartz is a powerful magnet for new relationships. 

Amethyst Romantic Gemstone


It’s not just its pretty, feminine colour that makes amethyst a romantic gemstone.  Did you know that amethyst was said to have been a gemstone favoured by St Valentine, patron saint of love and marriage?   Because amethyst is believed to bestow clarity of thought and emotion on its wearer, it is often used to promote honesty and self-knowledge – definitely qualities needed in any strong relationship!

Moonstone romantic gemstone


The perfect way to tell your loved one that you love them to the Moon and back, moonstone even has a romantic name.  The ethereal blue shimmer that makes this magical gem seem to glow from within, is due to an optical phenomenon called adularescence, which is caused by light bouncing off the internal structure of the stone. 

A delicate and feminine gem, moonstone is believed to influence fertility, help women during childbirth and bring good fortune, love and affection to those who wear it. 

Diamond romantic gemstone


How could I leave diamond out of a Valentine’s Day blog?  Traditional gemstone of engagement rings since the 15th century, diamond’s unparalleled durability makes it the perfect stone to symbolise everlasting love.  Diamond company DeBeers thought so too, coming up with one of the world’s most famous advertising straplines – A Diamond is Forever.  If you’re thinking about popping the question though, don’t be unduly influenced by the notion that you should spend the equivalent of one, two or even three months’ salary on the ring.  That was also a marketing strategy cooked up by DeBeers! 

So, which of these five wins your vote for most romantic gemstone for Valentine’s day?

Kim Rix GG GIA

Gemstone Detective

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Gemstone for a 5th anniversary: sapphire


Congratulations to all of you celebrating a 5th anniversary, the anniversary of sapphire!  Symbolising love and fidelity, sapphire is a beautiful gemstone that’s tough enough to withstand a few knocks – just like a good marriage.

5th anniversary gemstone |

Though blue is the most popular and well-known colour, sapphires occur in a wide range of pretty hues: blue, pink, green, yellow, orange, purple, black and even colourless.  There’s no such thing as a red sapphire though.  Know why?  It’s because a red sapphire is known as a ruby.  Sapphire and ruby are both varieties of the mineral corundum, and the variation in colour is caused by different chemical elements within the gemstones’ structure. 

I’ve come across some phenomenal sapphires on my travels, and I don’t just mean that they made my jaw drop!  The term ‘phenomenal’ in gemmology refers to gemstones that have fascinating optical properties. 

The most well-known type of phenomenal sapphire is probably the star sapphire.  Star sapphires exhibit a property called ‘astersim’, which means that they seem to have a star shape floating across their surface.  Asterism happens when light bounces off dense, linear inclusions of titanium dioxide (also known as ‘rutile’ or ‘silk’) in the gemstone’s body.   In black star sapphires, the rutile is hematite and some Thai sapphires contain both titanium dioxide and hematite.  As well as causing the floating star effect, the rutile gives the star sapphire its milky, opaque appearance.  Depending on the nature of the rutile, a sapphire may exhibit a four, six or twelve-rayed star.

You probably know that alexandrite is a colour change gemstone, but did you know that it’s possible to buy a colour change sapphire?  Colour change gemstones appear to be different colours in natural and artificial light because the gemstone’s chemical makeup means that particular ranges of wavelength (i.e. colours) in the light spectrum are absorbed more intensely under one light source than another.  The colour change in sapphires is most commonly a subtle but pretty change from blue to violet. 

Bi-coloured or ‘parti’ sapphire displays two different colours (usually blue and greenish yellow) within the gemstone no matter what the light source.  Though found in Tanzania, Madagascar and Nigeria, the world’s main source of parti sapphire is Australia.  I was lucky enough to find a few myself, when fossicking in the outback on my travels down under.  These intriguing and unusual sapphires certainly make for a striking piece of jewellery!

Happy 5th anniversary! Let’s not forget that sapphire is also September’s birthstone!

Kim Rix GG, GIA

Gemstone Detective

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Gemstone Healing for relaxation


Have you ever considered gemstone healing to help you relax?  All aspects of everyday life, whether work stress, relationship drama or the pressures of a young family, can follow us into our precious relaxation time.  If you struggle to unwind and enjoy your holiday, why not try the ancient practice of gemstone healing to help you relax?

Those who believe in the physical and spiritual healing properties of gemstones use them in several different ways.  Some wear their gemstones in the form of pendants, bracelets or rings.  Others carry a gemstone with them to hold in times of need—you can buy a huge variety in the form of ‘palm stones’, which are smooth, palm-sized pebbles that feel comforting to hold in one hand.  Many place crystals around the house in areas which particularly need the stone’s healing energy.

Rose quartz

Delicately pink rose quartz is the go-to gemstone for those who need to practise a bit of self-care.   Widely known as a stone of love, rose quartz is great if your relaxation time is regularly interrupted by squabbles and bad feeling!  If you have children who are getting on each other’s nerves, you could try placing a rose quartz crystal in their play spaces.  Likewise, if an argument with your partner is stressing you out, using a rose quartz in the bedroom could help you relax on holiday by reconnecting in a positive way.

Rose Quartz Gem Tree |
Rose Quartz gem tree


If you’re one of those people who finds it difficult to switch off the work worries when your head hits the pillow, and who struggles to get a good night’s sleep on holiday, amethyst may be the gemstone for you.  Amethyst, with its peaceful energy, is known as a stone of sleep, so keeping one on your bedside table could help you drift off properly…and stay asleep long enough to enjoy a holiday lie-in. 

Amethyst Gemstone Healing |
Amethyst – photo taken at the Tucson Gem Show, USA


What better gemstone to take on a beach holiday than aquamarine, stone of the sea?  Its light blue hue evokes the clear waters of the ocean and is said to have calming energies that help to quieten a racing mind.  Many people use it to deepen their meditation, so it’s good for those who find it hard to relax on holiday if there’s lots of activity going on around them.  As a gemstone used as a protective talisman by sailors since ancient times, aquamarine is also great if your holiday is marred by the fear of travelling by boat or plane.

Aquamarine Gemstone Healing |
Aquamarine from Vietnam

Interested to know more about gemstone healing? You’ll find some useful information in Buying Gemstones & Jewellery in India.

Kim Rix, GG GIA

Gemstone Detective

Be sure. Be smart. Buy with confidence

Gemstone Tour Etiquette and Ground Rules


Travelling in a group can be an incredible and life-affirming experience as long as everyone understands group etiquette and expectations, and the same is true for a Gemstone Tour with The Gemstone Detective. 

If you’ve read about my travels with renowned field gemmologist, Vincent Pardieu, you’ll know that we had to spend a few lunches getting to know each other before he would invite me on one of his expeditions into the field.  Vincent won’t travel with people he doesn’t know, because he cannot risk taking people who are not team players or who might pose a liability to the trip.

Though I’m always up for lunch with fellow gemstone enthusiasts, you can sign up for your Gemstone Tour without us needing to get to know each other beforehand.  But—and it’s a big but—you do need to think carefully about whether an expedition is right for you.  

On a Gemstone Tour you’ll get an educational, hands-on introduction to the gem trade in that location.  You’ll get to visit gem mines, gem markets and gemstone & jewellery shops, and witness jewellery, goldsmithing and gem cutting & polishing workshops.  Along the way, I make sure you get to experience the local culture and way of life! 

So, now to the ground rules! 

Gemstone Tour Etiquette and Ground Rules

Here are the 3 most important questions to ask yourself before signing up:

Do I have a good level of health and fitness?

Full disclosure of health issues is extremely important. 

We have small group tours planned to South East Asia, where the weather is hot and humid.  We sometimes visit places with very little shade. You need to be sure that you can handle this and come equipped with a hat, water bottle, sunscreen etc. 

At the gemstone mine Mogok |
Miners sifting the gem gravels to find gemstones. Mogok mine in Myanmar

Most toilets outside the main hotels are squat toilets.  Are your knees up to the job?  The mines rarely have toilets, even for the miners.  Can you cope?

Gemstone Tour Etiquette mine visits |
At the gemstone mine in Mogok, Myanmar. No shade. No toilets.

Some of the tours require a certain level of fitness to reach the gem mines, which can be dangerous to navigate, with rough terrain.  Are you able to walk down steep verges, balance along planks and jump over little rivers?

Can I keep to a schedule?

Gem Tours are kept deliberately short to fit into our busy lives and so our schedule is tightly packed.  Are you able to respect group timings and make sure that you don’t keep your fellow travellers waiting?  Heavy sleepers need to have some contingency measures in place—an alarm clock (in addition to your phone alarm); a buddy system etc!

Visit the Goldsmith |
We visit the Goldsmith in Mogok, Myanmar

Am I prepared to be a team player?

Are you willing to participate in activities and push yourself to try new experiences and foods?  It can really drag a group down if there’s one person who refuses to try anything new or unfamiliar.  These expeditions are designed to immerse you not only in the gem trade of each location, but also the local culture—grab the opportunity with both hands and get involved!

Gemstone Tour Etiquette mealtimes |
Beautiful, fresh, home-cooked cuisine in Mogok

To find out more about booking a Gemstone Tour with Gemstone Detective, visit

Kim Rix GG GIA

Author of Gemstone Detective

Be sure | Be smart | Buy with confidence

Six gemstones for Pride Month


June is Pride Month, a month to celebrate LGBTQ+ communities all over the world, so let’s have a look at some gemstones that reflect the colours and meaning of the famous rainbow Pride flag!

Gemstones for Pride |

Gemstones for Pride: a symbol of Pride, the colours of the striped Pride flag echo the colours of the rainbow, with each colour symbolising a positive concept. The colours come together to represent humankind’s diverse community.

Red: life

Red garnet has been associated with the heart and blood since ancient times, so is a good choice to represent life-giving energy.  Particularly appropriate for Pride, red garnet is also said to enhance vitality, self-confidence and sexuality.

Garnets for Pride |

Orange: healing

Carnelian is traditionally used to help its wearer to overcome trauma and abuse.  A powerful and dynamic stone, carnelian is said to impart energy to both body and mind, restoring lost courage and vitality.  The 18th century German writer and statesman, Goethe, wrote that carnelian ‘drives away all evil things,’ making it a good choice to protect against intolerance and homophobia.

Carnelian |

Yellow: sunlight

Many cultures associate amber with the warmth and energy of the sun.  Ancient Greek poet, Homer, in his epic poem The Odyssey, described the precious gift of a necklace ‘set with amber beads, that glowed as if with sunshine.’  Said to absorb negative energy and pain, this beautiful, organic gemstone will certainly bring light and positivity into your life.

Amber Gems |

Green: nature

Soothing green jadeite jade is believed to be a nurturing gemstone that instils peace and self-acceptance in its wearer.  Its colour represents the energy of the natural world and is often used to help create positive channels for wealth and abundance.

Jade for Pride month |

Blue: harmony and peace

Lapis lazuli is a gemstone of friendship andsociability.  Many people use this intense blue stone to help free themselves of anger, frustration and resentment, and so find inner peace.  Lapis lazuli is also thought to increase self-awareness and understanding of one’s motivations.

Lapis Lazuli for Pride month |

Violet: spirit

A gemstone said to have powerful metaphysical properties, amethyst is regarded as the stone to use for spiritual protection, helping the wearer to achieve inner balance and emotional intelligence.  If you’re thinking about another meaning of the word ‘spirit’, amethyst was traditionally used to guard against drunkenness – the word ‘amethyst’ means ‘not intoxicated’ in Ancient Greek! 

Gemstones for Pride |

Happy Pride Month!

Kim Rix GG GIA

Author of Gemstone Detective

Be sure | Be smart | Buy with confidence

Why is coral so controversial?


As today is World Oceans Day, it’s time to have a conversation about coral jewellery.  What is coral and why is coral so controversial?

Like the bones in our body and pearls, coral is made of calcium carbonate.  The coral we see in jewellery is formed from the external skeletons of plant-like underwater organisms called coral polyps.  Colonies of these tiny polyps grow, die and repeat this cycle over generations, building up huge structures over time.  Once harvested, coral is polished to produce beads, cabochons and irregular-shaped branches for use in jewellery. 

There are many different types of coral, but we refer to the coral used in jewellery as ‘precious’ coral.  Historically, precious coral referred to the genus Corallium, a deep red to pink variety that commands the highest prices.  Nowadays, the term ‘precious’ is used to refer to any coral made into jewellery, including Antipatharia (black), Heliopora Coerulea (blue) or Gerardia (gold), among others. 

Traditionally, Corallium was harvested in the Mediterranean.  Unfortunately, this type of coral grows only a millimetre per year and decades of over harvesting has decimated natural coral reefs—not only in the Mediterranean, but also the world over.  This is disastrous for marine life, as coral reefs provide the planet with some of its richest and most biologically diverse ecosystems.

The Convention on International Trade in Endangered Species (CITES) has attempted to address this but getting countries to agree to protective legislation has proven to be extremely difficult.   Farming coral for reef restoration and for aquariums is possible, but precious coral grows too slowly and in conditions that are too difficult to make commercial farming viable. 

Much of the coral on sale in markets and fairs is bamboo coral, a porous, white variety of deep-sea coral that has been filled, dyed red and polished to imitate the more expensive Corallium.  Unfortunately bamboo coral is not a more sustainable choice, as continued demand for coral is creating the same problems for reefs of bamboo coral as it has done for the more sought-after types.

Because of the environmental and ethical issues surrounding coral jewellery, many jewellers no longer use it in their collections, from big names like Tiffany and Co, who stopped selling coral jewellery in 2004, to independent artisan jewellers and craftspeople.  

Ultimately, the only way to wear coral jewellery sustainably is to look for antique or vintage pieces—our oceans are far more precious than strings of coral beads!

Kim Rix GG GIA

Author of Gemstone Detective

Be sure | Be smart | Buy with confidence